CRUSHES OH CRUSHES!!!

Crushes are a normal thing to happen, you may have a little too many crushes on different people at different times. Don’t worry it is pretty normal.

There are different types of crushes that include:

1. The childhood crush: The guy you played with all the childhood games with and obviously got attached to him so bad. It broke your heart a little when you discovered on Facebook that he got married, even though you haven’t spoken to him in 10 years and he’s not even that cute anymore.

2. The celeb crush: The clearly unattainable guy celeb whose poster hung above your bed for the longest it can survive and you were legitimately certain you’d marry him. You’re so glad the Internet wasn’t around when you were 13 because you might have been one of those crazy preteens making Twitter death threats against his girlfriend.

3. The work crush: This is the guy you wouldn’t normally be into, but you sit next to him nine hours a day, five days a week, and he is probably the best colleague you have ever heard. Better worse he starts flirting with. You will definitely be forced to develop a smidge of feelings for him.

4. The not-your-type crush: The guy you would never ever dream or even expect yourself to be into, but you are in a big way. He’s blond and you hate everything about him. He’s totally corporate and you’re an all-natural free spirit. He’s a skater boy, you do ballet. Whatever, opposites attract.

5. The Social Network crush: The guy you’ve never even met, but you are very tight friend. You basically know everything about him. You constantly check if he has contacted you. He’s so cute and always so witty, and now you Google-stalk him weekly and dream of ways to scheme a run-in with him.

6. The hate crush: The guy you really can’t stand, but your blood gets so hot every time he enrages you that it basically turns you on and you just want to rip his clothes off to make him stop talking already.

7. The high school reunion crush: The guy who you were ever in class with and you basically competed vigorously for all the best positions in class and maybe school never even noticed him, but five years later, you’re suddenly putting on makeup and a sexy dress just in case you run into him on the streets.

8. The borderline-inappropriate authority crush: The guy who is way too old for you and you feel majorly creepy admitting it to yourself, but you’d totally do him. Think a college professor, your dad’s friend or your first boss.

9. The barista crush: The guy who serves your drinks at the bar. He always remembers how you take it and gives you a sweet little wink, so you’re basically in love, right?

10. The crush you’d never admit: The guy you would never say out loud that you have a teeny-tiny harmless crush on because it’s so, so wrong. Like, say, your best friend’s fiancé. You’d NEVER act on it, ever (but you did have a weird dream once that made you feel guilty).

11. The see-him-everywhere crush: The guy in your extended circle of friends that you run into all the time. He is basically everywhere you are. He is on the same street all the time, He’s on your bus one morning. You go to the same gym. He’s at your classmate’s birthday party. But you can never quite find a way to get him into a real conversation.

12. The “This could really be it” crush: This is the guy you just started dating and appears as he who has serious potential to be the love of your life. You've got all the delightful swoon-y symptoms of a crush, but there's something even better there too.

All this types of crushes are healthy and not wrong, until you become obsessive and it destroys you and your inner being. Don’t let them destroy you. Many crushes will come and go. Based on a psychological research, crushed only last for 4 months, if its past that the you already in love!!